3. Post pictures that are fun, silly, sexy, and diverse

3. Post pictures that are fun, silly, sexy, and diverse

I’m looking at the profiles that read: “Don’t even think about swiping right if you are under 6 ft and don’t make at least six figures. I want someone who will treat me like a princess, meaning flowers every other day, make me dinner when I’m tired, can afford shoes with red bottoms (you know the one) and will put me first above all else.”

I commend any and all of you who have standards and convictions you are passionate about when it comes to establishing a relationship. You most definitely should. But let’s take a moment to break this down. You’ve never met these people and, similarly, they have no idea who you are.

These dudes aren’t going to relentlessly vie for your love and social media endorsements like faceless cogs

Most dating app users are just seeking an initial attraction, and then will probably immediately ask you out for a drink without much lead-in. Lire la suite